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بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

KITAB ARBA'IN AN-NAWAWI
by: Imam An-Nawawi

(May Allah have mercy on him)

Compilation and Arrangement:
Dr. Nakwa Parvez Ahmed Madani
(May Allah preserve him)

Hadith No. 12

Leaving That Which Does Not Concern One

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ: «مِنْ حُسْنِ إِسْلَامِ الْمَرْءِ تَرْكُهُ مَا لَا يَعْنِيهِ»۔

[رَوَاهُ التِّرْمِذِيُّ (2317)، وَابْنُ مَاجَهْ (3976) - حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ]

Translation:

Narrated by Hadhrat Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him): The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Part of the perfection/beauty of a person's Islam is his leaving that which does not concern him.” [Reported by Al-Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah — Hasan]

Benefits of the Hadith:

  • 1
    A Great Foundation of Faith and Shariah:
    Comprehensive Speech (Jawami' al-Kalim): This Hadith is among the comprehensive statements of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), containing an ocean of morals and etiquette within concise words. According to Imam An-Nawawi (may Allah have mercy on him), the etiquette of Islamic life is established upon this.
    The Beauty and Levels of Islam: This Hadith demonstrates that there are varying degrees and levels in people's Islam.
    Secret to Perfection: The secret to beautifying and perfecting one's Islam lies in abandoning useless and futile matters.
  • 2
    The Value of Time and the Secret to Success:
    Protection of Energy: A successful person does not waste energy on useless activities, whether in worldly affairs or the Hereafter.
    Valuing Time: Considering time as a blessing and avoiding unnecessary debates is true wisdom and the key to success for a seeker of knowledge.
    Application in the Modern Era: In today's age, staying away from non-essential internet use, unnecessary videos, futile comments, and online debates is the best form of practicing this Hadith.
  • 3
    Reformation of Tongue, Morals, and Society:
    Guardianship of Speech: This Hadith serves as the fundamental basis for safeguarding the tongue from idle talk, backbiting, tale-bearing, and slander.
    Social Peace and Privacy: By discouraging prying into the private affairs of others and curbing futile curiosity, this Hadith protects society from trials and discord.
  • 4
    Purity of Heart and Purification of the Soul (Tazkiyah-e-Nafs):
    Humility (Khushoo') in Worship: Futility and excessive talk harden and deaden the heart. Distancing oneself from them softens the heart, purifies the inner self, and develops devotion in worship.
    Focus on Self-Reformation: Rather than searching for defects in others, a believer should remain actively engaged in self-reformation and deeds that attain the pleasure of Allah.
  • 5
    Educational and Practical Aspects:
    Way of the Pious Predecessors (Salaf al-Salih): The righteous predecessors spoke little, avoided unnecessary socializing, and remained keen only on beneficial deeds.
    Upbringing of Youth: It is essential for parents and teachers to train children in dignity, seriousness, and avoiding futile matters so that they remain safe from trials and attain success.